I kid you not. As I was typing the previous post my kids were supposedly getting ready for bed, and they FOUND THE EASTER STASH hidden in my closet!!! In stead of brushing teeth they were playing hide and seek and 'accidentally saw' the candy and the baseball stuff they are getting. (They started T-Ball this week). Oh the irony!!!! What are the chances? Seriously.
I was raised by parents who believed encouraging Santa or other mythical creatures was LYING to your kids. My dad would say, "Once they find out you've lied to them, they'll wonder what else you've been lying to them about and they'll never trust you!" So I don't ever remember believing in Santa or Easter Bunnies or whatever. As a result, I have a hard time flat out lying to my kids about such things. Instead I avoid directly lying by saying things like, "I don't know honey, what do you think?" Or, "Hmm. That sure is interesting to think about." Maybe finding the easter stash is a convenient way to avoid having to admit to Spencer that I've been deceiving him all along. :) It sure is fun though.
Funny thing is that most of my siblings married people who REALLY believe in playing out Santa and other characters (like noises on the rooftops and response letters from the tooth fairy), and it has been funny to see how everyone decides how to do it in their family. I am pretty certain that Calvin will shake his head that I put the 'secret stash' in visible sight in our closet! That is a total no-no and very careless for a 'helper of mythical creatures!' Oh well. The way I see it, now we can move on and celebrate Easter for what it really means...that if your body is torn apart in an airplane crash, you'll get it back again someday, right Spence? :) (see below post). And that is something I really do believe in.
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the truth comes out . . . how did they react? or did you act just as surprised as they were that the easter bunny was conveniently stashing all the candy in YOUR closet since it's obviously difficult to hop with?!
This is bound to happen to me as well. I am horrible about hiding Christmas/ Easter stuff. I think subconsciously I want them to find it as well. I talk about my purchases right in front of them so they are bound to put it all together soon enough.
That is way too funny and a very Cory thing to happen. Your boys are way too smart.
Great post! I'm also torn at times between telling kids the truth and letting them believe in the magic for another year. --sigh--
PS: I found your blog through Sarah Vidal's blog. I grew up with the Cory family and I'm one of Rebecca's friends (Calvin's older sis). Your family is beautiful!
That is so funny--I figure by the time my kids figure it out they'll be old enough to understand that it's not really lying.....hopefully :)
My Dad was always really against celebrating these holidays as he called them "pagan holidays". I finally asked him why a little while back. He said that when he was a child, he remembers finding out that Santa wasn't real. He was confused. It had been such a big deal. His parents explained that it was just a really fun thing to do and it gave him something fun to believe in. Then he told me that a little while later, he was sitting in church with his family and while listening to someone bearing their testimony, the thought came to him: "hmm... well, if Santa Clause isn't real and my parents lied to me about him... maybe Jesus isn't real either." It sure made things confusing for a small boy. As children, we often rely on our parents' testimonies for our own to grow and develop. We need to be able to trust them... in EVERY way.
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